I wrote a post in July on domestic violence referencing the Ray Rice situation. At that time I had only seen the first video showing the aftermath. The second video is even more shocking (viewer discretion advised). However, viewing the first video left no doubt in my mind as to what had happened in that elevator. I am glad that the Ravens and Roger Goodell decided to penalize Rice for real, but disappointed as to how much it took to get there.
It is good to have this discussion in public, because often it isn’t public. If it weren’t for the casino’s security cameras, I doubt that Mrs. Rice would have done anything in response to her attack. And the next time it happens, or the time after that, there will be very real damage.
October is National Domestic Violence Awareness Month. As such, and in light of the recent NFL situations, a blog in California recently published some astonishing and scary statistics about domestic violence. Statistics and experience show that it does not occur just against women. And I know anecdotally from 35 years of practice that it is very under-reported by men. We’ve come … Keep reading
I hope you all had a terrific Fourth of July! I also hope that you were not a victim of domestic violence over a long, hot holiday weekend.
I came across some statistics for San Francisco recently which were pretty shocking. They reflected an increase in domestic violence reporting, due to a local story. However, the underlying reality of violence is probably pretty much the same everywhere. I was shocked to see in a variety of sources that 1 in 4 women will experience domestic violence. Neither wealth nor celebrity status prevents violence. In fact, Mr. Charles Saatchi has filed for divorce from his wife, celebrity chef Nigella Lawson, complaining that she didn’t defend him when he was photographed choking her in public.
It is not just a crime against women though. Over the years I have represented numbers of men abused by their wives. However, I was still shocked to discover that 40% of domestic violence is perpetrated against men. As a group, they are way less likely to report or even admit that they have been victims. While women are more often killed as a result of domestic violence, men are more often attacked with … Keep reading